NaNa

When you marry a woman, marry her for lifetime. If you see another younger woman and get attracted to her be it for whatever reason, please think back and remember the woman that spent decades with you, sleeping next to you everyday, carry your child in her womb for I don't know how many times. Think of the periods in her lifetime that she spent to take care of your babies, of how she battled between life and death in the labor room. She's the one that carrying all the impact after marrying you. She might be forgetful after each childbirth and might not look as good as a young girl now but all that she's willing to sacrifice when she chose to marry you. Of course she might not be an angel back then that thought about everything that I've stated above but just think this; she married you because she loves you. She stayed with you because she still do, and because somehow, you're everything in her life. If after you have had this thought in your head, but still you ...

Opinions are hard to come by. It is really up to you whether to share it or not. Sometimes the best way to deal life is to stay silent and ignore every stupidity. But really, it differs for everyone. Sometimes I will share opinions that are not pleasing to the ears or eyes. And it is always opposing majority. Yeah, I share the ones that opposing majority to leave a message that it is perfectly fine to be different, to think differently and have your own mind. You don't have to be following the entire herd if you don't believe in the course they fight for. If you have facts to support your opinions, will be even better. The key is to gain broader knowledge and deeper understanding of the issue matters. Be it health related, recipes (red velvet for example), public interests, religious, ecology and biodiversity, and whatnot. It is really okay to be different. It is best if you do it with good manners (this is 99.9% directed at my own self because when I get overwhelmed it is not ...

I will love you if you loved me. That is me, typically. But not all the time. We need to 'click' in order to achieve that. I guess it's the basic spark thingy. If you feel a thunderous spark with me, and magically I find you agreeable, yes. That's it. We'll magically gravitate to each other. If you feel the spark while I don't, and you start to force your existence into my life, no. I will erase myself from you because being me, I need to be comfortably sufficient by my own company but at the same time, wish to have you as someone that brings more joy and complements my life. You must have your own life and not 24/7 swooning over one person as though kita macam belangkas. If I feel the spark and you don't, I know it will just ends up me watching you from afar. I won't have that much courage to force my existence into your life because being typically me, I will be super awkward+unnecessarily nervous when you're around that either you will think...