Polygamy (I'm not involved here)
When you marry a woman, marry her for lifetime. If you see another younger woman and get attracted to her be it for whatever reason, please think back and remember the woman that spent decades with you, sleeping next to you everyday, carry your child in her womb for I don't know how many times. Think of the periods in her lifetime that she spent to take care of your babies, of how she battled between life and death in the labor room. She's the one that carrying all the impact after marrying you. She might be forgetful after each childbirth and might not look as good as a young girl now but all that she's willing to sacrifice when she chose to marry you. Of course she might not be an angel back then that thought about everything that I've stated above but just think this; she married you because she loves you. She stayed with you because she still do, and because somehow, you're everything in her life.
If after you have had this thought in your head, but still you want to marry that new younger girl you can go ahead. But please, be fair. Be fair, extremely fair. I have nothing against polygamy, it is allowed anyway but just be fair. In every aspect. You have to love both of them. You have to somehow divide yourself by 2. You have to be really fair. Until your first wife would not feel left out, and the second one would not feel like a villain. It all depends on you, old man.
Your heart might be always young and wild, but you need to weigh carefully what's best for all. You have so much to think of. I'll leave it at that.
If after you have had this thought in your head, but still you want to marry that new younger girl you can go ahead. But please, be fair. Be fair, extremely fair. I have nothing against polygamy, it is allowed anyway but just be fair. In every aspect. You have to love both of them. You have to somehow divide yourself by 2. You have to be really fair. Until your first wife would not feel left out, and the second one would not feel like a villain. It all depends on you, old man.
Your heart might be always young and wild, but you need to weigh carefully what's best for all. You have so much to think of. I'll leave it at that.
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